It’s no secret that men watch a lot of porn. I mean… a lot of porn.
Women on the other hand have no sexual urges and only fornicate with their husbands in order to procreate… Just kidding of course.
If that were true we would not have so many porn sites dedicated to women’s pleasure. Porn is not just for men and I’m getting a bit tired of society claiming otherwise. Luckily the world is finally catching on. The porn industry has come a long way in the past 30 years. Want to watch something that doesn’t objectify women? Want to add a little spice to your nights alone? Here are our top 11 female friendly porn sites to get you started!
11. Sssh.com
Sssh.com is a female friendly porn site in more ways than one. First of all the filmmakers place greats emphasis on steamy romance between plenty of women of various ethnicities and ages. Also, Sssh is a member of EthicalPorn.com and committed to treating their performers with respect. The site is also owned by a woman. As such, you’re guaranteed an adult entertainment service with female desire at its core. Membership is affordable. As well as all the naughty videos, there is a mountain of erotic reading material and an entire virtual world to explore. Unfortunately you cannot download the videos and the search engine could do with some work – but these are only minor criticisms.
10. Bellesa.com
Bellesa is on this list specifically for the sense of realism imbued in every video. You watch these scenes and truly believe the actors are passionate about giving the other the best sexual experience of their life. These sexy videos and photos are created by the Bellesa community. They also share feminist posts. Also, unlike many other competitive sites, Bellesa is completely free. The brand wants to reduce sexual violence in videos and tends to contain less content where the woman is objectified – which is commendable. Unfortunately, the fact that members can upload their own content reduces quality every so often – some videos are definitely less erotic than others. That being said, this is just my personal opinion.
9. PornHub.com
Although not traditionally aimed at women, PornHub have introduced a truly expansive “popular with women” section. Here you can find videos that are a hit with the female users of this popular adult entertainment site. Pornhub is free (which is fabulous) but if you do want to see the very best content you need to pay for premium membership. Luckily for us gals, PornHub gives free premium access during your period. This thoughtful gift alone earned PornHub a spot on our list. Thank you guys!
Also, if you want to make sure you are using PornHub ethically, you should only watch verified amateurs. Not only is their content authentic, the sex is hot as hell as well!
8. Literotica.com
If you are not a fan of reading, Literotica might not be the site for you. However, if you are open minded, you should definitely give this erotic reading site a try. Not only is it free, it offers a space for budding writers to share their deepest desires. There’s something very intimate about being the first person to read a story, especially when they’re as hot as some of these yarns. Obviously, it’s unfortunate there are no actual videos on this site, but there are ten other sites on this list that can scratch that itch.
7. XConfessions.com
XConfessions is an awesome concept. Created by a fellow porn enthusiast, she asks people to submit their fantasies. She then turns them into hot-as-hell porn videos. Because this site has made it onto our list, you can probably guess that plenty of these fantasies were submitted by women. They use real-looking men and women which makes it so much hotter than the standard Brazzers material. This is not one of those female-friendly sites which only deal is softcore porn – the videos can get pretty intense (in a good way) and the performers often push themselves to the very limits of eroticism. XConfessions does cost a bit extra than your usual porn subscription, but it is well worth the premium fee.
6. CommonSensual.com
Common Sensual is porn made through the gaze of the female lens – with female desire at the forefront of everything they do. If you enjoy arthouse erotica, I highly recommend this site. Every movie is beautifully shot and the sex is basically a piece of art itself. You may know the site under its former name, Lucie Makes Porn, though the style of filmmaking has definitely matured. Adult filmmakers contribute to this porn community and are dedicated to pushing boundaries and exploring the constructs of adult entertainment. The sign-up fee is a little expensive, but you won’t find many better porn experiences than this one any time soon.
5. Cam4.com
At Cam4 you can watch men and women pleasing themselves or others via livestream. If you haven’t tried live cams this the perfect site for you to break your duck. There are many beautiful people, working for themselves, making a bit of extra cash. The results are a very personal and sexy affair. You can create a free account but you will be interrupted by adverts – so it is best to sign up for the full experience. You can buy gold tokens to spend on special requests to your favourite performers. My favourite feature is the surprisingly unique voyeur cams set up by individuals who enjoy being watched. Here you can experience all their mundane and intimate moments in equal measure.
4.MakeLoveNotPorn.com
Make Love Not Porn is perfect for those of you who enjoy watching couples make love. This site features all the intimacy of amateur porn but with the experience of people who actually work in the business. I found this site a perfect place to watch porn with my partner. This site rents it’s videos out so rather than paying for a subscription – kind of like a kinky Blockbuster if you’re old enough to remember what that actually is! This means if you watch porn on a regular basis, you’re going to spend a lot of money. In that case, you would probably be better with a site which offers a monthly subscription.
3. GoodVibrationsVOD.com
Good Vibrations After Dark is an American company that has been selling sex toys amongst other things since the 70s. They have recently branched out and created a new site where you can rent and view some excellent original content. With a tagline like “Feminist porn on demand” you are guaranteed to find plenty of porn specifically aimed at women. With tonnes of genres and fetish content, you’re bound to find something to tickle your fancy. The only downfall is that there is no subscription option, so if you enjoy watching porn every night, it may become a little expensive.
2. SoundsOfPleasure.com
Sounds of Pleasure is a collection of recordings consisting of people having sex, masturbating or talking dirty. It does not contain any pictures or videos. It might seem strange to have this on my top 11 female friendly porn sites list, but there is a reason for its inclusion. If you have ever been turned on by the sound of your partner having an orgasm, this website will make perfect sense to you. You can imagine any face or body to those voices. It’s a personal favourite and free to enjoy. The orgasms are all claimed to be real – but we’ll let you decide for yourself with that one. They certainly sound like it. The dirty talk is also on point. The only limit is your imagination.
1. BrightDesire.com
Bright Desire was the winner of the Honoured Website Feminist Porn Awards back in 2015. The site claims to be a place where “you’ll find a different kind of porn: re-envisioned, feminist, and positive.” When watching their high quality videos, you can see their unique ethos shine. In every video the performers can be seen laughing; genuinely enjoying themselves in the moment. I don’t know about you but there’s nothing sexier than a woman who truly lives for intimacy. This site is on the expensive side. However, it is well worth the money – you won’t find any better female-friendly porn on the internet.
I hope you enjoy working your way through this list as much as I enjoyed researching these sites. When you purchase memberships to feminist porn sites (many of which emphasise on ethics and consent), you slowly change the view of women’s sexuality in society, increasing the chances of more porn being ethically sourced and made. Let’s create a healthier view of sex and the female role when it comes to intimacy.
Enjoy the list!
